Wednesday, July 08, 2009

School bullying, once a silent battle, now a crime


School bullying, once a silent battle, now a crime

By CHRISTINE ARMARIO
Associated Press
July 6, 2009


TAMPA, Fla. ---- In a Tampa middle school locker room, prosecutors say four flag football players held down a younger teammate and committed a horrifying assault: Raping him with a hockey stick and a broom handle.

"Don't do it again or this is going to happen to you again," a witness says he heard one of the boys say in the April attack.

Two decades ago, the attack may have stayed a secret. Victims of hazing, bullying and sexual assault are still often too terrified to report their attackers ---- though officials say that's starting to change.

Police are called to investigate everything from cyber-bullying and schoolyard fights to brutal hazing rituals, and tormenters can be prosecuted under anti-bullying laws in dozens of states. Proactive parents aren't afraid to confront school officials or take the matter to court, and schools are training students and teachers alike to spot and report bullying...

Thirty-two percent of students ages 12 to 18 nationwide had experienced bullying within the past school year in 2007, according to a report by the U.S. Education Department and the U.S. Justice Department. That number was slightly higher than the year before ---- though officials say it's not because bullying is more frequent, but because it's more often reported.

Parents are taking more action as well, including filing more lawsuits.

"The reason it's picking up momentum is not necessarily the frequency of the bullying, but the manner in which people are engaging in bullying," said Joe Braun, a Cincinnati attorney who sued on behalf of the family of a high school basketball player attacked by three teammates while waiting for a bus to take them to practice in Milford, Ohio. "It's starting to become more physical, more sexual, and it's not just emotional bullying like we've seen in the past."

According to the lawsuit, the teens held the boy on the ground and punched him in the stomach. One of them exposed himself and rubbed his genitals on the boy's face.

Other accusations of particularly cruel incidents have led to lawsuits and criminal charges. In South Florida, two high school students have been charged with stalking and battery for allegedly restraining a freshman in the school locker room. One of the teens admitted he did "pretend to rape him," according to a police affidavit.

And a school district in Bakersfield along with several students and their parents, paid $260,000 to settle a lawsuit after debate team members encased a younger student in plastic wrap and tape in a hotel room before a competition.

The Tampa case has stunned the region for its brutality, the young age of the four students accused and the fact it happened on school grounds. Equally surprising were the characteristics of the accused: One is the son of a police officer, and several are promising athletes and students who took honors classes....

[Maura Larkins comment: Football players are often involved in bullying. In San Diego, an almost identical incident happened in Poway. Santana High School experienced a shooting that killed two students. Friends of the shooter said he had been bullied by athletes. The parents of the victims asked the district to have a conference about school violence, but the school refused. Not surprisingly, athletes continued their bullying, as in the Clark-Schirmer case. At Columbine a bullying culture among athletes continued after bullied boys killed thirteen people.]


The bullying had gone on for months, officials said, unbeknownst to the boys' coach, school administrators and the victim's parents, until the teen finally snapped.

Assistant State Attorney Kimberly Hindman said at a June hearing that the boys were fighting after a botched play during a flag football game. A school official intervened when the feud spilled into the locker room, and the teen later said he was "tired of them getting on me."

...[T]here are witnesses, independent eyewitnesses, who saw the acts taking place. Some of those witnesses will describe the victim screaming when it was happening. Fighting them and he told them to stop."

The suspects' families have expressed a combination of shock, denial and support.

"I just don't think that he deserved this," one defendant's mother said in court.

"Deserved what?" Circuit Judge Wayne Timmerman replied.

"Whatever the accusations that was made
," she said. "I just want him to live a normal life."

The 13-year-old victim, who is not being identified because he was the victim of an alleged sexual assault, said a few words himself before the judge set bond.


Comments from North County Times


...Roxy July 7, 2009 11:23PM PST [Edited by this blogger]

There are many bully stories and lawsuits in SAN DIEGO COUNTY and hardly any if any ever get any press coverage...California school districts are protected by JPA Pools like SELF in which Marsh and McLennan is the Broker, or Keenan and Associates. This schoolhouse lawyer makes millions of dollars from various JPAs. The JPAs’ Pool has over TEN MILLION DOLLARS of PUBLIC FUNDS at their disposal to fight a SINGLE CLAIM against one their insured school districts...


[OTHER] BULLY LAWSUITS

http://www.10news.com/news/4427116/detail.html


http://mauralarkins.com/files/CoralesSolteroOntarioMontclair0755892p.pdf


http://www.californiainjurylawyersblog.com/2009/06/-3-million-orange-county-california-wrongful-death-lawsuit-filed-over-suicide-death-of-teen-that-was.html

http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniontrib/20060217/news_lz1n17read.html


http://learningboosters.blogspot.com/2008/12/miss-porters-school-sued-for-bullying.html

http://www.californiabusinesslitigation.com/2009/04/parents_file_suit_against_scho_1.html

http://denver.injuryboard.com/miscellaneous/parents-sue-bully-school-district-next.aspx?googleid=233634

http://sandiegoeducationreport.org/PETERSvGUAJOMEPARKACADEMY.html


http://www.ravendays.org/court.html


BULLY RELATED DEATHS and STILL COUNTING..

http://www.ravendays.org/darkness.html

VIDEO OF CHILDREN WHO COMMITTED SUICIDE

http://www.freewebs.com/agpcabinc/

2 comments:

Ayala said...

My father, Izzy Kalman, offers an excellent, free manual to help stop being teased and bullied:

http://www.bullies2buddies.com/How-to-Stop-Being-Teased-and-Bullied-Without-Really-Trying

If you are having doubts about its effectiveness, here is an article that tells of a hopeless mother of a bullying victim who finally turned to my father's free manual to seek help for her son, and watched his bullying problems disappear instantly:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-bully-witch-hunt/200907/free-website-manual-saves-life-bullying-victim

Maura Larkins said...

Here is Ayala's comment with links activated (I hope):

My father, Izzy Kalman, offers an excellent, free manual to help stop being teased and bullied:

http://www.bullies2buddies.com/How-to-Stop-Being-Teased-and-Bullied-Without-Really-Trying

If you are having doubts about its effectiveness, here is an article that tells of a hopeless mother of a bullying victim who finally turned to my father's free manual to seek help for her son, and watched his bullying problems disappear instantly:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-bully-witch-hunt/200907/free-website-manual-saves-life-bullying-victim