Showing posts with label suicide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label suicide. Show all posts

Thursday, February 05, 2015

Kids are forced by law to go to school, where they meet their bullies: Danielle Green petition regarding her bullied daughter's suicide

Kids are forced by law to go to school, where they meet their bullies. Schools should take responsibility for the harm that students endure as a result of going to school. 



Protect Our Children: Do Not Pass Senate Bill 500 
Danielle Green
West Lafayette, IN

 On March 5th, 2013, my beautiful daughter Angel took her own life after being repeatedly bullied by classmates both in person on school grounds and over the internet. The pain of losing a child is indescribable -- she was the light of my life and I still can’t comprehend life without her. The only way I can move forward now is to dedicate myself to making sure that this never happens to another family. I have worked diligently to get anti-bullying legislation passed in my home state of Indiana, and when House Bill 1423 (The Anti-Bullying Bill) was passed in 2013, I was hopeful that we had made a turn for the better.

The bill stated that disciplinary actions would be taken against bullies and that any and all bullying related incidences would be investigated and reported.

 But now a new bill could completely dismantle all of the progress made to stop bullying in Indiana. Senate Bill 500, which is currently in committee and set to be voted on in this legislative session, would remove the school’s ability to address bullying that takes place off school grounds that could impair the victims school environment. This means that cyberbullying, one of the most popular and insidious forms of bullying our kids deal with today -- the form of bullying my daughter Angel experienced -- would no longer be considered a form of bullying by schools.

The bill also eliminates all disciplinary actions toward bullies as well as programs for victim support, and would eliminate teacher training on suicide, bullying prevention, and mental health awareness. Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among people ages 15-34 in Indiana. According to the 2011 Youth Risk Behavior Survey, administered bi-annually by the Centers for Disease Control, Indiana ranks third worst in the nation in terms of incidences of bullying at school and cyberbullying.

The idea that a bill could remove what are obviously desperately needed programs to prevent bullying in our schools is incomprehensible. Schools should be safe places where our children learn and grow into the unique individuals they are meant to be, not the places that convince them their lives are not worth living. 4,400 teens nationwide take their lives every year due to the hateful words and cruel actions of others. Please sign our petition to keep the kids of Indiana safe in school and at home. In her suicide note, Angel asked for us to get her justice, and I will never stop trying to fulfill her final wish. Losing one Angel was too many lost. No child should ever feel victimized by another to a point of suicide. Lets give these kids hope for a future. Please sign today.
Thank you and God Bless.

Petitioning Indiana State Senate
This petition will be delivered to: Indiana State Senate
Danielle Green started this petition

Friday, October 18, 2013

Mother of girl accused of bullying is arrested; girl recently said she didn't regret causing suicide of her target


Vivian Vosburg, mother of bully / Polk County Sheriff's Office

Rebecca Sedwick Update: Online video led to arrest of mother of girl accused of bullying 12-year-old who committed suicide
By Julia Dahl
CBS News
October 18, 2013

(CBS) - Police say a video of the mother of a 14-year-old girl charged with stalking a Fla. teen who later committed suicide shows the woman punching several juveniles and screaming obscenities.

Vivian Vosburg, 30, was arrested Friday and has been charged with two counts of child abuse with bodily harm, and four counts of child neglect.

Polk County police released a statement late Friday saying that they received tips leading them to the video which was posted on Facebook in July 2013.

According to the affadavit, the video depicts "what appear to be two juvenile boys fighting on a bed. An adult female then enters and begins to punch and hit victim #2...the suspect then leans over and punches victim #1...in the face who then slides off the bed and onto the floor."

The affadavit continues with the officer who interviewed Vosburg writing: "Vivian repeatedly stated that she was not feeling well that day, that she had a long day at work...Vivian admitted she did go too far..."

Vosburg's 14-year-old daughter, who CBS News is not naming because of her age, was arrested on Oct. 14 and charged with aggravated stalking related to the death of 12-year-old Rebecca Sedwick, who committed suicide after allegedly being bullied by the teen and a 12-year-old who was also charged.




Twelve-year-old bullying victim Rebecca Sedwick recently killed herself.

Sheriff Judd is assuming that adults are nicer than children. It would appear that the parents of these bullies aren't much concerned about what their children did, or are doing. (Update Oct. 18, 2013: It seems I was right about this, as arrest of the mother shows--see above).

And what about the boyfriend? What's his deal?


Sheriff: Taunting post leads to arrests in Rebecca Sedwick bullying death
By Michael Pearson. Kim Segal and John Couwels
CNN
October 15, 2013

Rebecca Sedwick jumped to her death on September 9.

Two girls, 12 and 14, charged with aggravated stalking of Rebecca Sedwick
One of the girls posted Saturday that she had bullied the girl and didn't care, sheriff says
The bullying began with anger or jealousy over a boy, sheriff says
Rebecca jumped to her death in Florida last month

Winter Haven, Florida (CNN) -- It all started with a boy.

The intense bullying that led 12-year-old Rebecca Sedwick to jump to her death last month stemmed from a dispute between her and a former classmate over a boy they had both dated, police said Tuesday.

And it didn't even end with Rebecca's September 9 death, said Grady Judd, sheriff of Polk County, Florida.

Authorities arrested two girls, including the 14-year-old girl alleged to have been Rebecca's chief tormenter, on Monday after the girl posted a taunting message on the Internet about what had happened.

"Yes IK I bullied REBECCA nd she killed her self but IDGAF," the Facebook post read, according to CNN affiliate WFTV. Judd said the initials meant "I don't give a (expletive)."

Judd said the 14-year-old girl's family claimed her account had been compromised, but he said investigators don't believe that to be true.

After the girl's family refused to bring her in for questioning, Judd sent detectives to arrest her and a 12-year-old friend at their homes. The girls, whom CNN are not naming, are charged with aggravated stalking. They were booked Monday and the 12-year-old was released to her parents, Judd said. The 14-year-old remains detained.

"She forced this arrest today," Judd said of the 14-year-old's decision to post the message Saturday.

According to Judd, the girl was upset that Rebecca had once dated her current boyfriend and began bullying and harassing her more than a year ago when they were both students at a Florida middle school.

In addition to sending harassing messages over the Internet, the girl physically attacked Rebecca at least once, Judd said. She also recruited the girl's former best friend -- the 12-year-old charged Monday -- to bully her, Judd said.

Are we too quick to cry 'bully'?

Among the online messages that drove Rebecca to jump to her death from the top of an abandoned concrete plant were, "You should die" and "why don't you go kill yourself," according to Judd.

The night before Rebecca killed herself, authorities say she messaged a boy she had befriended online, writing, "I'm jumping. I can't take it anymore."

Judd, clearly upset over the incident, expressed frustration that neither girl's parents were willing to bring them in for questioning. He said he was astonished to find out that the 14-year-old in the case was still being allowed to post to the Internet after what had happened.

He said he would charge the child's parents if he could, but said investigators were aware of no "obvious charges" against them.

"I'm aggravated that the parents aren't doing what they are supposed to be doing," he said.

While bullying Rebecca was not in itself against the law, Judd said, the girls' actions harassing her in school and online formed the basis for the stalking charge. He did not expect any other charges would be filed.

No court date has yet been set for the girls, who Judd said will likely not see any time in juvenile detention because they have no previous criminal records and the charge is a class 3 felony, one step up from a misdemeanor under Florida law.

Had Rebecca been 17 or older, he said, authorities could have filed nothing more than misdemeanor charges.

He implored parents to take more responsibility for the actions of their children online.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Another teacher suicide; students suspended for speaking out about bullied teacher Jennifer Lenihan of Bassett High School District


Jennifer Lenihan

See also post on death of Mary Eve Thorson.

Harassment and suicide are two of the results of the refusal of school districts to set up effective teacher evaluation systems and uniform policies for increasing teacher performance. If a teacher is doing something wrong, then the teacher should be given prompt and accurate feedback. Instead, principals tend to harass teachers they don't like, and incompetence is often not the reason for such harassment. In fact, weak principals allow incompetent teachers to rule the roost if they are politically powerful, and try to get rid of excellent teachers who don't go along with school politics. Ideally, evaluations should be done by outside observers who have no political ax to grind.

"Workplace bullying - the very stuff that Ms. Lenihan endured, the stuff your teachers fear - is VERY real. It IS 'the Elephant in the Living Room' of bullying at school. Children bully because adults bully."


Three students suspended from Bassett High for distributing stickers
By Jason Henry
San Gabriel Valley Tribune
09/21/13

LA PUENTE >> A little more than a week before her suspension, Associate Student Body president Johnell Gonzalez told the Bassett Board of Education that a staff member had scolded her for speaking her mind at board meetings.

That same meeting, senior Aaron Simental, spoke to the board about the problems the associate student body students had.

Gonzalez, who is the student representative to the school board, Simental and one other member of the student body were suspended Friday for circulating stickers calling for a “revolution” among Bassett’s students.

The stickers read “Revolution is coming” and depicted the mask of Guy Fawkes used in the film “V For Vendetta” and popularized by the hacker group Anonymous. Some of the circulated material included the date former teacher, Jennifer Lenihan, committed suicide. Lenihan’s family recently announced plans to sue the district after claiming administrators bullied Lenihan to the point she killed herself.

The students have expressed issues with their newly appointed advisor — who they said is an unqualified appointment — and with their lack of a voice in their own education. Recently, the students took issue with the school’s homecoming dance, which students said is slated for Oct. 4 but has yet to be planned out.

“We weren’t being heard, we were told going to meetings to have discussions about (the problems), but nothing was happening,” Gonzalez said after her suspension Friday.

The suspensions came after student Elizabeth Zevallos was caught passing out the stickers at the high school’s Back to School event Thursday night.

Administrators suspended Zevallos — the student body’s chief justice — and pulled Simental and Gonzales out of class the next day. Deputies were called to the school on a report of vandalism, according to the Industry Sheriff’s station, though no citations were issued. Placing stickers on a wall counts as vandalism because there is a cost, however minor, associated with their removal, according to a deputy.

In an emailed message to staff, superintendent Jose Reynoso said a student was found in possession of “items in the memory of Ms. Lenihan.”

“The propaganda apparently spoke to the recent small print flyers such as ‘bullies,’ ‘morale,’ etc., Reynoso wrote. “We will be proactive for our district, those employees that are being tried in the public media as well as Ms. Lenihan’s memory. It is my hope that this investigation will uncover the trail to this cruel and unacceptable human behavior. There is no room for this ugliness.”

The students say administrators told them they could face jail time for making a “terrorist” threat, if they didn’t turn over the names of everyone involved in the campaign.

“We were told it is considered a terrorist threat and we’ll be expelled if we don’t talk, and now I’m suspended,” she said.

Simental said he received the same treatment. “They said ‘if you don’t tell us what you’re doing right now, we’ll call the sheriff’s office right now and let them figure it out,’ ” he said.

Simental’s mother, Vira Simental, called the suspension “ridiculous,” noting her son has never been disciplined in his entire time in the district.

“They saw that nothing is being done when they turn to the administration, so out of frustration the kids create these leaflets,” she said. “They’re missing the issue at hand — that these kids are crying out for help.”

Vira Simental said she came to the school to pick up her son, but office workers told her they were not sure where he was. Administrators then refused to let her see him.

She said Vice Principal Nathan Arredondo told her he knew a teacher helped orchestrate the campaign and that he wanted her son to give up the name, she said.

When reached for comment, Arrendondo said he had no knowledge of any terrorist threats and that there had been a problem with stickers.

“They’ve posted a couple in the hallways,” he said. “It is not widespread or anything.”

He declined to confirm if any students were suspended.

School Board Vice President Joe Medina said he’d heard students were handing out “inappropriate” materials. He said it would sound odd if two students were suspended a week after speaking out about being retaliated against, but that he did not know enough details to say what exactly happened.

“I think we’re very careful with the use of suspension as a tool, as a discipline tool,” he said. “I could say it is something that we veer away from and try not to use.”


Petitioning Tom Torlakson
Bassett Unified School Superintendent Reynoso: Find out how Bad the Bullying Really is - and tell us!
Petition by Sandra Goodwick
Montrose, CA

On July 1, 2013, one of your teachers - Jennifer Lenihan - took her own life. Her step-dad shared at a recent Board of Education meeting that she had been harassed by administrators in front of her students and other staff members. According to Jason Henry (SGV Tribune, (9/01/2013) Family plans lawsuit against Bassett Unified over teacher’s suicide your district's teachers are afraid to speak out about workplace bullying because they fear retaliation. Another teacher states that the type of belittlement Ms. Lenihan went through is standard in your district. “It is part of what they do, they make you so unhappy, they want you to leave,” the teacher said. Your teachers union president said she has received a number of complaints about the same administrators who harassed Ms. Lenihan, and that morale has dropped dramatically within the district in recent years.

And, Superintendent Reynoso, you said, “I don’t know that that has been brought to our attention in terms of any written form. No one has brought that to our attention, and they have never asked to discuss this as an issue."

You have an opportunity here, Superintendent Reynoso. Workplace bullying - the very stuff that Ms. Lenihan endured, the stuff your teachers fear - is VERY real. It IS "the Elephant in the Living Room" of bullying at school. Children bully because adults bully. Teachers and other employees commit suicide for the very same reasons school kids do - bullying. Superintendent Reynoso, denying it or minimizing its impact will only mean that bullying continues to wreak havoc among your students and teachers, parents and the community at large. This is real It will only get worse when ignored!

Honor your entire school community by contacting an organization such as Dr. Gary Namie ("Work Doctor") at 360-656-6603 Workplace Bullying in Schools Dr. Namie's organization has already worked with several California public school districts right here in southern California. Your school district can take a FREE Online Workplace Bullying Prevalence Survey. FREE!!

Then, share with your community what has been learned. If there's no bullying, we'd all breathe a sigh of relief! But if there's bullying, then honor ALL the people you serve - your students and their families, your staff, the surrounding community ... and tackle this - a problem that leads to suicide, disability and violence. Honor us all! We ALL care!


Family plans lawsuit against Bassett Unified over teacher’s suicide
By Jason Henry
San Gabriel Valley Tribune
09/01/13

LA PUENTE >> The stepfather of a Bassett High School art teacher who committed suicide in July has announced plans to file a wrongful death suit against the district after claiming his stepdaughter’s death resulted from bullying by administrators.

A series of incidents led to Jennifer Lenihan taking a stress leave, which left her in such financial turmoil that she took her own life July 1, the day her mother went to give her money to help with rent, according to Manuel Jaramillo, her stepfather.

“We believe she was driven to suicide,” Jaramillo said. “She had journals, she had emails, she has other friends that are willing to come forth in the trial.”

In the documents she left behind, Lenihan spoke of being harassed in front of students and other staff members, Jaramillo said. He declined to give names because it could hurt his future case.

A fellow employee who spoke anonymously out of fear of retaliation said she recalled two administrators, Robert Reyes and Jimmy Lima, the principal and assistant principal respectively, yelling at Lenihan in a courtyard in front of teachers and students. A friend of Lenihan said she told him of also being talked down to in her classroom while students watched.

Reyes and Lima did not return calls for comment.

A second ordeal involved a yearbook class the high school’s administration took away from another teacher and gave to Lenihan, despite her saying she did not feel comfortable teaching it. The class, typically a senior level class, had too many freshmen and did not receive enough funding. It also did not have lenses for the cameras used in the class, according to the teacher. When asked not to have the class, she was told she had to take it or she would lose another class she taught, Jaramillo said.

“The pressure got too great, and she left the school,” Jaramillo said. She received half her monthly salary while on a stress leave, which lasted from October to July, during which time she was denied disability and workers’ compensation. She took out a personal loan just to get by, Jaramillo said. She did not receive any part of her salary the month she killed herself because of the denial of workers’ compensation, Jaramillo said.

She was instead told she could resign or apply for a waiting list to return to the district, he said.

The type of belittlement Lenihan allegedly experienced has become standard in the district, according to teacher Tom Covington, who spoke separately from his position as the teachers union’s vice president.

“It is part of what they do, they make you so unhappy, they want you to leave,” Covington said.

Bassett Teachers Association President Maryellen Daners has received a number of complaints about Reyes and Lima, and in general, says morale has dropped dramatically across the district in recent years.

“People see what is happening, and they’re afraid it could happen to them,” she said. Changes, such as eliminated positions, seem related to personal issues rather than performance ones, she said.

Lenihan was meeting with the California Teachers Association to get assistance with her problems in the district, but Daners could not speak to specifics.

Bassett Unified’s new Superintendent Jose Reynoso said he is not aware of Lenihan formally bringing up the problem to the district’s top administrators.

“I don’t know that that has been brought to our attention in terms of any written form,” he said. “No one has brought that to our attention, and they have never asked to discuss this as an issue.”

Reynoso said he had no idea of the family’s accusations until the family announced their plans for a lawsuit at a recent board meeting.

Reynoso confirmed a number of small notes were found spread across Bassett High School’s campus after Lenihan’s death that read “Think before you speak to teachers,” “Bullies,” and “Where is the morale of Bassett teachers?”

No one came forward to speak about the notes and the topic dropped, he said.

The district does not have a morale problem, he said. Teachers who have spoke to him seem positive about the new year, he said.

“I see a new spirit in them, and it really brings me joy,” he said.

Reynoso said he feels sad about the passing of Lenihan and the pain her family is feeling but that he feels the district did everything it should have.

Desmond Jervis and Hugo Lopez both had Lenihan their senior year in 2005 and continued to stay in touch with her after graduation. Jervis described Lenihan as someone who, despite barely making enough to live on, would buy paint and supplies for her classes out of her own pocket.

Jervis noticed the change in recent months. Lenihan stopped wanting to be around her friends and even turned down visits to art museums, which she previously loved.

“She couldn’t even sleep, she just keep thinking about what went wrong,” he said. “I saw her cry the last time I saw her. I’d never seen her cry before.”

“They took away her happiness,” he said.

Lopez spoke before the Bassett Unified board at its last meeting and called for a change.

“I urge you to never let the fantasy of a few undermine the well-being of the many. Jennifer and I always agreed on that point. All of her activism and creativity lives on with me, her colleagues and every wayward child she taught to express what was in their heart,” Lopez said. “It’s time to pay her back with our future decisions. We can start here, in the school and in the district that originally gave her the platform and the audience to change individual worlds.”

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Suicide turns attention to high school discipline procedures

Suicide turns attention to Fairfax discipline procedures
By Donna St. George
Washington Post
February 20, 2011

Nick Stuban was all about football, a quick-footed linebacker at W.T. Woodson High School in Fairfax County who did well in the classroom, too: four As, two Bs and a C for first quarter. His history teacher described the 15-year-old as a "model student," and his German teacher was impressed by his enthusiasm for language. His attendance record was nearly perfect.

* Family of Fairfax teen suicide victim wants changes in school disciplinary policies
* A temperance movement springs up to combat Fairfax County schools' zero-tolerance policy
* A suspension, an unraveling and a suicide
* Why school zero tolerance policies make no sense

That changed Nov. 3, when Nick was suspended from school for buying a capsule of a substance known as JWH-018, a synthetic compound with a marijuana-like effect. JWH-018 was legal - Nick had checked it out first on Google - but he soon discovered that he had made a mistake with consequences far beyond anything he expected.

"I don't know what I was thinking," his father recalls Nick saying.

Over the next 11 weeks, his mistake unraveled much of what Nick held close - his life at school, his sense of identity, his connection to the second family he'd found in his football team. Nick's emotional descent was steeper than anyone imagined, and its painful finality brought light to a discipline system that many Fairfax families call too lengthy, too rigid and too hostile.

Nick took his life Jan. 20, the second student in two years to die of a suicide amid the fallout of a disciplinary infraction in Fairfax. In March 2009, Josh Anderson, 17, a football player at South Lakes High School, committed suicide the day before his second disciplinary hearing.

Suicides are never associated with a single cause, experts say. But Nick's difficulties - based on interviews with family, friends, experts and school officials, and more than 100 pages of case documents - allow a close look at how consequences intended to help a student correct course instead can fuel a growing despair.

His story follows patterns described by parents in at least a dozen other Fairfax cases with similar disciplinary consequences. Even first-time offenders are out of school for long periods - a month, two months, longer if an appeal is filed. When they return, more than half are not returned to their original schools and can face difficult transitions - new teachers, new friends and new classes.
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Superintendent Jack D. Dale vigorously defends his discipline system...

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Financial crimes can equal murder

See all Bernie Madoff posts.

Madoff Investor’s Suicide Leaves Questions
By ALEX BERENSON and MATTHEW SALTMARSH
New York Times
January 1, 2009

In the days after Bernard L. Madoff was arrested and accused of orchestrating a $50 billion Ponzi scheme, one of his investors — Rene-Thierry Magon de la Villehuchet — struggled with his role in the fraud.

Mr. de la Villehuchet, a French aristocrat and professional investor who lived in the New York suburbs, had put at least $1.4 billion of his and his clients’ money with Mr. Madoff. He had lost his entire savings. He was overwhelmed and depressed, according to people who had spoken to him.

Worse, he felt personally responsible for the money his investors had lost, his brother Bertrand said in a phone interview in Paris this week...





Ruth Madoff Reportedly Blames Bernie For Son's Suicide

PerezHilton.com
Dec. 14, 2010

...Ruth Madoff is reportedly blaming her husband, Bernie, for their son Mark's suicide.

Here's what Madoff biographer Jerry Oppenheimer had to say about it on The Today Show:

"She claims that Bernie Madoff has blood on his hands. She calls him an SOB … that he's totally ruined his family, and the death of their son was the final straw."

Oppenheimer has also said that Ruth feels that Mark "would not have died if it weren't for what [Bernie] had done."

And more from Oppenheimer:

"Her wrath is aimed at her husband." ...

Sunday, December 05, 2010

Hundreds attend Wisconsin hostage taker's memorial

Hundreds attend Wisconsin hostage taker's memorial
Dec 05, 2010
By TODD RICHMOND
Associated Press

Hundreds of people showed up Sunday for a memorial to a 15-year-old Wisconsin boy who held his social studies class hostage before shooting himself last week, setting aside the terrifying standoff to remember him as a quiet, helpful leader who loved the outdoors.

Sam Hengel's family held the gathering in a school auditorium in Menominee, Mich., because they expected so many supporters. Menominee lies just across the Menominee River from Marinette, Wis., where Hengel held 26 classmates and his teacher at gunpoint for nearly six hours.

Barb Post of Marinette, Wis., said she didn't know Hengel's family but attended anyway to show support.

"You care about the people and the family, and you understand it could happen to anybody," Post said.

Why Hengel took his class hostage remains a mystery. Other students and his teacher have said he was well-liked and had many friends.

The standoff last Monday at Marinette High School began when Hengel returned to his sixth-hour Western Civilization class from a bathroom break. He had two semi-automatic pistols and a backpack jammed with more than 200 rounds of ammunition and a pair of knives.

Students and police said he immediately fired three shots, blasting a hole in a wall and tearing apart a film projector. Students talked to him about everything from hunting and fishing to his favorite movies in an attempt to keep him calm.

No one else in the school apparently recognized the sound of the shots as gunfire, and Hengel told the teacher to post a note on the door telling seventh-period students to report to the library. As a result, no one realized the class was in danger until about a half-hour after school ended, when a man came to the school office looking for his daughter.

Principal Corry Lambie determined the last class the girl attended was Western Civilization and went to the room to find the door locked. When Lambie unlocked the door, Hengel pointed his gun at him and told him to leave. Hengel allowed the girl to go with Lambie.

The standoff dragged on for four more hours, with teacher Valerie Burd acting as a go-between for Hengel and police.

A SWAT team stormed the room after Hengel fired three shots about 8 p.m., destroying the classroom phone and hitting a computer. Hengel shot himself as officers reached him. He died the next morning.

Flurries fell under an overcast sky Sunday afternoon, adding to a feeling of gloom. The line to greet the teen's parents and two younger brothers stretched out of the auditorium and into the lobby, where mourners gazed at collages of photos depicting Hengel as a small child, holding a string of fish and paddling along on a canoe trip with his family.

On a table was a message board. Hengel's brother, Ben, had written "I will always miss you, brother" on it. Next to the board were pin-on buttons emblazoned with Hengel's face and take-home cards listing symptoms that might indicate suicidal thoughts...

Wednesday, September 02, 2009

Bullying in the army

Soldier Kills Himself After Alleged Abuse
By MEGHAN BARR, AP
Aug. 23, 2009

When Adrian Wilhelm learned that his son committed suicide just four days into his deployment in Iraq, he knew right away that the facts didn't add up.
His son, 19-year-old Pvt. Keiffer Wilhelm, had been excited and upbeat just weeks earlier as he prepared to ship overseas. He was planning to buy a new car. He was exercising diligently, shedding at least 20 pounds in time for boot camp.

Then, suddenly, he was dead. Now his family is struggling to process the stunning news that four of Wilhelm's fellow soldiers stand accused of abusing him and other soldiers in his platoon with excessive physical fitness and cruelty before his death.

"They just acted like they were a bunch of street hoods," Adrian Wilhelm said from his home in Plymouth, Ohio. "They thought they were above the law."

The soldiers have been charged with cruelty and maltreatment of subordinates, among other charges...

Wilhelm died Aug. 4 of a gunshot wound to the head in Maysan province in southern Iraq.

...Adrian Wilhelm says he's read that his son was forced to crawl in the dirt until his legs bled, and that he was harassed about his weight...

A portrait of a young, idealistic soldier devoted to the Army began to emerge from interviews with family and friends in the small northern Ohio town where Wilhelm grew up. A high school wrestler who battled weight issues, Wilhelm worked hard to get in shape before his deployment...

"Keiffer was the most non-threatening person you would ever want to meet," she said. "I just don't think he was ready for the brutality from his own troops."...

[Maura Larkins comment: Being non-threatening is probably one of the most common traits of people who are bullied. Bullies think they can get away with it because their target will not fight back.]

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

School bullying, once a silent battle, now a crime


School bullying, once a silent battle, now a crime

By CHRISTINE ARMARIO
Associated Press
July 6, 2009


TAMPA, Fla. ---- In a Tampa middle school locker room, prosecutors say four flag football players held down a younger teammate and committed a horrifying assault: Raping him with a hockey stick and a broom handle.

"Don't do it again or this is going to happen to you again," a witness says he heard one of the boys say in the April attack.

Two decades ago, the attack may have stayed a secret. Victims of hazing, bullying and sexual assault are still often too terrified to report their attackers ---- though officials say that's starting to change.

Police are called to investigate everything from cyber-bullying and schoolyard fights to brutal hazing rituals, and tormenters can be prosecuted under anti-bullying laws in dozens of states. Proactive parents aren't afraid to confront school officials or take the matter to court, and schools are training students and teachers alike to spot and report bullying...

Thirty-two percent of students ages 12 to 18 nationwide had experienced bullying within the past school year in 2007, according to a report by the U.S. Education Department and the U.S. Justice Department. That number was slightly higher than the year before ---- though officials say it's not because bullying is more frequent, but because it's more often reported.

Parents are taking more action as well, including filing more lawsuits.

"The reason it's picking up momentum is not necessarily the frequency of the bullying, but the manner in which people are engaging in bullying," said Joe Braun, a Cincinnati attorney who sued on behalf of the family of a high school basketball player attacked by three teammates while waiting for a bus to take them to practice in Milford, Ohio. "It's starting to become more physical, more sexual, and it's not just emotional bullying like we've seen in the past."

According to the lawsuit, the teens held the boy on the ground and punched him in the stomach. One of them exposed himself and rubbed his genitals on the boy's face.

Other accusations of particularly cruel incidents have led to lawsuits and criminal charges. In South Florida, two high school students have been charged with stalking and battery for allegedly restraining a freshman in the school locker room. One of the teens admitted he did "pretend to rape him," according to a police affidavit.

And a school district in Bakersfield along with several students and their parents, paid $260,000 to settle a lawsuit after debate team members encased a younger student in plastic wrap and tape in a hotel room before a competition.

The Tampa case has stunned the region for its brutality, the young age of the four students accused and the fact it happened on school grounds. Equally surprising were the characteristics of the accused: One is the son of a police officer, and several are promising athletes and students who took honors classes....

[Maura Larkins comment: Football players are often involved in bullying. In San Diego, an almost identical incident happened in Poway. Santana High School experienced a shooting that killed two students. Friends of the shooter said he had been bullied by athletes. The parents of the victims asked the district to have a conference about school violence, but the school refused. Not surprisingly, athletes continued their bullying, as in the Clark-Schirmer case. At Columbine a bullying culture among athletes continued after bullied boys killed thirteen people.]


The bullying had gone on for months, officials said, unbeknownst to the boys' coach, school administrators and the victim's parents, until the teen finally snapped.

Assistant State Attorney Kimberly Hindman said at a June hearing that the boys were fighting after a botched play during a flag football game. A school official intervened when the feud spilled into the locker room, and the teen later said he was "tired of them getting on me."

...[T]here are witnesses, independent eyewitnesses, who saw the acts taking place. Some of those witnesses will describe the victim screaming when it was happening. Fighting them and he told them to stop."

The suspects' families have expressed a combination of shock, denial and support.

"I just don't think that he deserved this," one defendant's mother said in court.

"Deserved what?" Circuit Judge Wayne Timmerman replied.

"Whatever the accusations that was made
," she said. "I just want him to live a normal life."

The 13-year-old victim, who is not being identified because he was the victim of an alleged sexual assault, said a few words himself before the judge set bond.


Comments from North County Times


...Roxy July 7, 2009 11:23PM PST [Edited by this blogger]

There are many bully stories and lawsuits in SAN DIEGO COUNTY and hardly any if any ever get any press coverage...California school districts are protected by JPA Pools like SELF in which Marsh and McLennan is the Broker, or Keenan and Associates. This schoolhouse lawyer makes millions of dollars from various JPAs. The JPAs’ Pool has over TEN MILLION DOLLARS of PUBLIC FUNDS at their disposal to fight a SINGLE CLAIM against one their insured school districts...


[OTHER] BULLY LAWSUITS

http://www.10news.com/news/4427116/detail.html


http://mauralarkins.com/files/CoralesSolteroOntarioMontclair0755892p.pdf


http://www.californiainjurylawyersblog.com/2009/06/-3-million-orange-county-california-wrongful-death-lawsuit-filed-over-suicide-death-of-teen-that-was.html

http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniontrib/20060217/news_lz1n17read.html


http://learningboosters.blogspot.com/2008/12/miss-porters-school-sued-for-bullying.html

http://www.californiabusinesslitigation.com/2009/04/parents_file_suit_against_scho_1.html

http://denver.injuryboard.com/miscellaneous/parents-sue-bully-school-district-next.aspx?googleid=233634

http://sandiegoeducationreport.org/PETERSvGUAJOMEPARKACADEMY.html


http://www.ravendays.org/court.html


BULLY RELATED DEATHS and STILL COUNTING..

http://www.ravendays.org/darkness.html

VIDEO OF CHILDREN WHO COMMITTED SUICIDE

http://www.freewebs.com/agpcabinc/